Perlu atau mahu?

There is a fine [maybe not that fine] line between the need and want.

I don’t think there’s no ending in finding for the thing we want. It is unavoidable maybe to keep searching and searching. Sometimes it is questionable, though it is obvious, we tend to trade the needs for the things that we want. Ridiculous, right?

Oh, panggilan ceramah. I’ll continue. Promise. With more ideas, perhaps. Doakan! :)

*Update*

So, untuk menjawab kak nana,  I am not in dilemma. At least, I think so. Hehe. Anyway, I have to agree with Shahsulong, the ability is one fear factor that should be considered in getting what we want.

It is possible that those things that we just want before, now had became something we really need. Not having it might led us to feel miserable. For instance, before, mobile phone is something unthinkable, what more to have it, and what more, to have it at a very reasonable price. The price that we are able to pay. [though had to swipe first, pay later].

In the yesteryears, while we were in secondary/primary schools, we were taught that there are 3 basic needs in our life, which are food, clothes and a place to live. Who knows that as we grow up, apparently there’s so much more to need than those three basic things.

So, I think, the things that we want, i.e the car, the phone or anything, are actually is the things that we need, in order to fulfill those other stage of needs as according to Maslow, there are 5 hierarchies of needs. [as in diagram below]

We [okay, at least I want them] want the phone, the car and anything because there’s the self esteem needs [in me] that need to be fulfilled.

Actually I don’t really want to write about this stuff as I am obviously not good at it, but who cares it’s my blog anyway  I have this simple conclusion to share;

Don’t take things for granted. Identify those things you really need, go for it, secure it, then settle for the things that you want. The things that you want, are actually, could only be worthwhile if you have the things that you need.

You think.

Lu pikirlah sendiri.

Pengarang: aishahkay

simple young lady, living happy most of the time.

21 thoughts on “Perlu atau mahu?”

  1. saya tak pernah nak hafal that hirarki needs, masa paper semester lepas pun alhamdulillah tak kuar quest tu, kalau tak tak tau nak bantai apa.

  2. ahkon, kasut tu macam keperluan dah tu..clothes kan? hehe

    faruqy, i couldn’t agree more.

    t.a.t.a, echah dulu belajar benda ni…tapi dah tak berapa ingat dah. kalau dulu hafal!

    khai…pendapat kau tu….janji dapat…kalau mampu dapatkan…okay la tu…😛

  3. teh, echah pun belajar jugak…masa belajar HR Development dulu….😛 itu yang tahu pasal maslow ni, otherwise…i wouldnt even remember it, i think.😛

    how’s new [not so new maybe] place? have fun!

  4. hehehe. kiranya berguna jugaklah apa yang kita belajar kan? sebab still ingat sampai skang…

    new place? okla… but i miss my “own place” very much! tak sabar nak balik ni. hari-hari menghitung hari. next year pantang cuti, komfem i kerap balik.

  5. teh, ala..sabar je lah..tempat jatuh lagikan dikenang inikan pula tempat bermanja…huhu😛

    kak nana…kat tempat saya namanya MGM….subjek management kan?😛
    saya pun dapat A jugak!

  6. echah kenapa?

    saya x pernah dengar pun pasal teori Maslow ni… huhuhu…

    dulu kita tatau pasal need/want ni sbb kecik lagi kot… hahaha… suma keperluan&kemahuan orang lain yang bagi… skang kena carik sendiri…😛

    bagi saya, kena ikut kemampuan gak…😉

  7. buzzy, takde apa pun…hihi…saja rasa nak berbincang pasal topik ni. tapi sebenarnya takde point pun haha…[err…maybe ada la sikit2 point…]

    teori maslow ni biasanya budak2 management je yang belajar…budak2 engine jarang yang aware…

    yang pasal lain2 tu saya setuju ngan buzzy…memang kena ikut kemampuan pun…😛

  8. echah: perhaps it is due to this blasted cold temperature but my head simply couldn’t process and relate to the Maslow pyramid at all. perhaps after this i’ll wiki-wiki.

    faruqy: may i have your email then? seriously, i don’t know how to invite people in yet, so pardon me should any delay persist🙂

  9. teori maslow ni adalah salah satu soklan exam MGT yang paling aku suka nak jwb…sbb senang kot…….sejak form 5 lagi dah bljr (subjek Perdagangan)….

  10. shida, wiki wiki tu ada linknya…echah dah letak…

    faruq, yer, silakan…macam tak biasa pulak…😛

    mamawafiy, yeah, MGT ke MGM, teori ni ada dalam easy to score subject kan?🙂

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