#ameraishah – Tunang dan Nikah!

Assalamualaikum! Hi kepada yang baca ni!

Alhamdulillah, rasa macam semuanya berlaku begitu pantas sekali (hee) I dan Amer dah kahwin pada 14 Disember lepas. Yes, masih boleh wish pengantin baru and kirimkan hadiah, kalau nak bagi. HAHA.

I pun tak tahu macam mana nak describe perasaan ni, sebab kadang-kadang rasa macam tak percaya yang kami dah kahwin. Kami akad nikah di Pejabat Agama Islam Daerah (PAID) Sepang, dengan wali ayah I… dan dinikahkan oleh Ustaz Zamzuri dari PAID Sepang. Alhamdulillah, semua urusan dokumen dan HIV Test sebelum pernikahan dipermudahkan.

Majlis bertunang kami was on 29th Nov, sama juga, semuanya dirancang macam cakap-cakap, Amer was like “mama tanya, tak nak tunang dulu ke?” “bagi la can mama sarungkan cincin tunang” pastu I sometimes took it seriously terus gi survey tempat etc, tempah make up etc… finally, tunang pun senyap2 saja dan hanya dihebahkan kepada kawan-kawan dan keluarga yang rapat. In fact, hari tunang tu, baru I text group family sebelah arwah my mom to let them know that I was about to got engaged. HMMM.

Kami buat saringan HIV di Klinik Kesihatan Salak Tinggi (kawasan kediaman I) and it was my first time sampai situ pun sebab biasanya I gi klinik area Putrajaya tapi nak book slot for the test… penuh! So again, siap test tu, baru la I boleh proceed with all the documents for kebenaran berkahwin.

Back and forth of scanning and sending documents to and from my father too… it was quite stressful at times but alhamdulillah, on 2nd December, permohonan diterima dan dapat tarikh nikah —- semua pun aware kut yang pejabat agama di Selangor ni penuh dengan permintaan menikah. HAHA.

So, after nikah, akad ambil masa less than 20 minutes saja, I did had a Google Meet session with some family members and friends, Amer and I with helps from our photographer and my bridesmaid (aimi, mid, sally, azy…) and abang2 (taz, jimmy and sani) had arranged a Google Meet during our akad… so some could watch it live.

Then, we had afternoon tea at Movenpick Hotel for close family and friends. InsyaAllah, there will be kenduri soon in Kelantan, hoping to do that too next year. You guys are invited.

Bye! Happy New Year!

Some updates

  1. The engagement was postponed, and now the CMCO is extended to 6th Dec, we planned to have the ceremony on 12th Dec, but hmmm, I’m actually afraid to plan (also tired)
  2. We went to a tailor, last Sunday to have our custom made baju. Entahlah, it was a spur of the moment action after we had breakfast last Sunday, seems like there’s nothing else to do, we were driving around while trying to Google some reasonable tailor and made some calls to check if the baju can be made within a month… patutnya baju tu untuk hantaran tunang, so since tak jadi, gi jelah hantar tailor dulu…
  3. Sakit I dah getting better, except on some areas but overall, better la dari a month ago. I dah kena top up ubat sebab tak cukup, elok2 sebulan je some ubat habis, supposed the supply would last me two months.
  4. Random : Fazura dah bersalin, nama anak dia Fatima.
  5. Anak buah I yang baru pulak, namanya Muhammad Firas Affan….
  6. What a year, kan?
Hopefully it would turn out okay. The most expensive one so far, I must say.

Macam-macam jadi in these few months

My boyfriend and I (yeah, I have this official boyfriend, finally) planned to have an engagement ceremony in my hometown next month. Sure we did some preparation for the day. Now, with this CMCO going in Selangor, I am not sure if I could actually go back to my hometown.

Anyway, I would wait until 27th October, because I’ve booked some services too, back home. My father was thinking of postponing the event. Hmmm, maybe.

I’m pretty sure no one is reading blog anymore these days.

Anyway, this psoriasis is making rounds non stop… guess I’ll live with it, take (still) me some time to adapt myself.

Work? Busy as usual, I’m expecting some things are going to be postponed too. Apa-apa pun, I’m still hoping for the best for everyone.

p.s : I received a new nephew yesterday. 🙂

So, I was diagnosed…

Apparently I was diagnosed of having this skin disease, quite a terrible ones. Psoriasis. I pun tak tahu apa rasa, except sometimes I rasa nak menangis though at certain times I was convinced that I can make it through, I was informed that I have to live with this condition… for the rest of my life.

It started in early August when I detected some red spots, causing itchiness and discomfort, I resorted to buying some medicine/treatment cream or soap, or pills from pharmacy until I went to a private clinic nearby and was advised that it might result from some allergy, though I couldn’t really recall what might cause it since I’ve been living this usual life for about 38 years and suddenly I need to think of something that I actually shouldn’t eat?

I went to 3 more clinics, until the last one referred me to a skin expert. (dermatologist). Okay the doctor at the last clinic actually declared that it was psoriasis after examining my body. By this time (28th Sept) the red dots had covered 10% of my bodies (10% = 10 palm of your hand on your body – apparently that is how it’s measured).

I had the appointment on 1st Oct and was supplied with 2 months medicines – it’s a lot… and it’s a routine I have to live with now.

So, hmmm it’s been 5 days. I am still trying to get used to it, most importantly to prevent myself from scratching the itchy spots, usually led to bleeding… (hate it). I can’t be under the sun for too long now, I can’t be sweaty (I still can but it’s discomfort) – I know… it’s a torture for me (not being unthankful though) a lot of people are going through more painful things.

I guess, I’ve been healthy enough(?) so I need to adapt to this condition, yeah, for sure. Please pray for me? Thank you in advance. Love.

Psoriasis is a skin disorder that causes skin cells to multiply up to 10 times faster than normal. This makes the skin build up into bumpy red patches covered with white scales. They can grow anywhere, but most appear on the scalp, elbows, knees, and lower back. Psoriasis can’t be passed from person to person